We all love to give gifts to express our gratitude. How much more so when it’s our wedding day. People don’t always think of etiquette and gift giving in the same sentence. Really, there is an excepted standard of gift giving when it comes to participants in your wedding. Many people put so much time and effort into the plans and the day just to make us happy. Those that are close to you want to do whatever they can to assist in making your fantasy come true. Perhaps, if it wasn’t for them, the entire day would not run as smoothly. What would you do without those you love surrounding you? In addition to verbally thanking them, you can give them a gift expressing how grateful you are for their hard work and attention they’ve given to you.

When it’s your wedding day, you may not even think of others because you are so consumed with yourself. Especially remember your parents, those in the wedding party including the best man and maid of honor. Basically, anyone and everyone that has had a huge role in the plans and in the actual event.

Starting with the wedding party, a similar gift can be given to each. Some brides have given all the bridesmaids something such as a piece of jewelry. You can always buy similar necklaces or earrings for the bridal party and give them as gifts that they can wear along with their bridesmaid dress. The bridal party doesn’t have to pay for accessories for their bridesmaid dress and they have a lifelong keepsake of your wedding day. As for the maid of honor, you may want to find her a gift that is a bit more special. The maid of honor is the one that has the large variety of responsibilities and has been by your side every step of the way. Etiquette dictates that you want to express your appreciation for all her hard work and for being your best friend. Think of something a little more extravagant such as a day at the spa with you or a bouquet of flowers sent to her home. These are memories that will be cherished forever.

As for the groomsmen and the best man, the same standards of etiquette are set. For instance, find the groomsmen cufflinks, watches or money clips. This is something that they can use in a practical way and that will remind them of the privilege they had in being a part of this important time in your life. The best man should be given something slightly different for the same reason as the maid of honor. He has been there with you every step of the way and is really your ‘best man.’ Thank him with a special gift of an engraved flask or gift certificate to a favorite restaurant.

Of course, always remember your parents. If it wasn’t for them, neither one of you would have been able to accomplish this entire wedding day and wouldn’t even be here. They raised you and supported you through good times and bad. Now they share the most precious day of seeing their son or daughter start a new life. Show how thankful you are for having such great parents buy giving a gift such as an engraved frame or something sentimental.

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